Last Friday I did a 7QT on dating. By default I dated, not simply hung out with my husband. In a recent discussion on FB, we spoke the pros and cons of cohabitation. To live with someone for the purposes of to knowing them, feels odd. Shouldn't you know them, before that?
I asked my husband if we learned anything about each other after marriage/living with one another?
We could not think of anything.
One point I made was that I learned a lot about my husband from his family, when we dated. The idea was downplayed.
But a point was made, what if one is estranged from most/some of their family?
Depressing, but a point that was properly made.