and my values should be placed in ash heap of history.
Not sure really if we are going to be better off.
My law degree sits on the wall, it isn't the decision that bothers me as much as the condescending view of marriage the judges have that permeates in social media. That is where I feel blindsided.
Commitment and even love are terminable in a way that obligation is not because both are subjective and can, to some degree, be chosen or unchosen. On the other hand, one may ignore an obligation, but cannot will it out of existence. An obligation is objective.