The 'War on Women' is about a woman's access to free mandated contraception and subsidized abortion. The 'thing' asking the question, is considered detrimental to women.
I have no problem answering the question to my daughter, "Where was I?". I was defending your life, and not my right to abort you. And instead of dragging you at the age of 14 to the GYN, for a preventative IUD, I will teach you about your fertility (in scientific terms). I will discuss how STDs are transmitted through multiple partners, and the importance that a healthy relationship is the best protection a woman can have.